This is a spell to increase your partner’s libido or sexual stamina. It can be used for men and women. Ideally, you should ask your partner for permission before performing this spell, as they may not want a higher libido. You can also perform this spell for yourself if you want to increase your sexual stamina or libido. This spell is to be performed three nights in a row.
Spell to increase libido For this libido spell, you will need: A photo of your partner (or yourself, if you are performing it for your libido) 4 red spell candles and one white spell candle A few drops of your zodiac essential oil Ylang ylang incense 3 mint leaves A red garnet stone For this spell, dress in red. If you don’t have a red outfit, something like a red scarf will do, as long as you wear something red. Put a few drops of the essential oil in a bowl of water and wash your hands in it to purify yourself.
If you’re looking for more libido spell, we also have spell kits that come with complete, ritually charged ingredients. See the Enhance Your Love Life spell kit for bringing a spark back into your relationship, or the fire ritual bath kit for calling in energies of passion and lust!
Other techniques involve repeating mantras during orgasm, focusing on sigils (a magical symbol) to help focus your energy, and invoking certain deities. Hathor, Isis, and Aphrodite are common goddess to invoke, but you can use whatever deity appeals most to you since sex magic is so personalized and intuitional. “I think everybody needs to find deities or mythology or archetypes that relate to them. So for some people that’s staying within their own heritage or culture,” says Cabral. “Personally, I love working with Venus or Aphrodite.” Intuition, she adds, is “the most important thing.”